All tasks have three stages to them. Understanding this can keep you from getting stuck. The goal is always completion. An organized life requires completed tasks. As you work through the three phases it becomes its own checklist for you.
Let’s use this example to demonstrate the three stages-
I need to make a doctor’s appointment but I have put if off for months. I figured out that there was more to it than I realized for me to complete this task.
Clutter has an impact on a space. It has an impact on everything. So let’s ask ourselves a couple of questions to determine the impact it is having on your home.
Do you have rooms where every corner is filled with something?
Does an open space bother you? In what way?
Am I just keeping stuff to fill a space?
The answer to these questions helps explain the need to hang on to stuff. There are some beliefs people have that equate stuff with success. I’ve also heard it said, there’s stuff here worth a lot of money so I don’t want to get rid of it. I also hear people tell me they are holding onto things of their adult child’s youth for their children. I inherited these items is also a common reason why people are hanging onto stuff.
Addressing the Beliefs
Equating the accumulation of stuff with success likely goes much deeper for you. This may require working with a trained Professional to have their help in getting through this. You are so much more than...
In an effort to educate, this blog comes from experiences I’ve had in working with others. This is for you if you are someone who has clutter. It is really meant for those who live with or know someone who is living with clutter. There is always a right way and a wrong way to approach people. What is meant to help often adds to emotional clutter. I have compiled a list of very common statements that have been said to the people I’ve worked with as Organizing clients. Is is my hope that these words will not be used as methods of helping people declutter. If you have used any of these statements, there is no judgement. However, when you know better you can do better to help others.
Clutter is everywhere! It’s deep within ourselves and in our homes. I did not get a lesson on organization when I was in school, did you? I thought you were either born organized or you weren’t. I also thought because I wasn’t born organized, I wouldn’t be organized no matter how much I tried. Boy, was I wrong!!!
Now, there is something to the thought that people are born organized but it has to do with which side of the brain is more dominant, right vs left. Left brain dominance is found in the analytical type who love order. This is not to say that people who are right brain dominant cannot become organized. Creativity is the key to the success of the organized journey. Many people are a combination of the right and left brain without a dominant side. They get to live in both worlds of creativity and order.
As I write this, I’d like you to find ONE THING you can do to start your organizing journey.
If you’ve never been...
Well, it’s the most wonderful time of the year as the song goes but you and I know it can be the most chaotic time of the year! This is your opportunity to live this holiday season organized. This guide has a few of my favorite things. (cue the music on this one!) Just think how much better you will be for starting out early. In order to do this, I am highlighting five popular parts of the holidays: Planning, Hosting/Traveling, Shopping, Decorating and everyone’s favorite, taking down the decorations.
(In this guide you will see links to products that I make a small affiliate amount for, this is not being charged or added to what you purchase. I am just being up front with you) The products with links are what I think you might like from what I have used. They may even be on sale!
First and foremost, you will need a planner. It can be on your phone, your desk or the wall. Getting the dates in your mind helps set the tone for what the next couple of months...
There are only 24 hours in a day...I needed 27. This has left me feeling as though I was running on a hamster wheel. Somewhere along the way, I had lost the order to my day and am reacting to whatever came my way. I cannot tell you how bad I felt about myself.
One of the best tools to help create order in the day is to use a planner. This can be paper or digital. I have found the planner to be instrumental in moving from a “yes” person to one with purpose and intention. Once I got the hang of the using the planner, every aspect of my life improved.
My planner helps me to:
A little fun fact about me, my organizing journey began in the sock drawer. Kind of strange, I agree. I knew the clutter and disorganization in my life needed to change, I just didn’t know how to make that happen. It happened that my sock drawer had gotten out of control because I really had no time to deal with it while in survival mode. In all honesty, many areas of my home and personal life were in chaos and disorganization. In a moment of helplessness, I opened up the sock drawer and decided on the spot to organize that space. This seemed like an area I could make sense of without a lot of effort. For me, the sock drawer was not of importance because I am the only one who uses this space. I really didn’t have a clear idea on what organizing actually meant. In my mind, I had a vision of all my socks matched up and positioned in such a way that I could easily find them. After about fifteen minutes of emptying the drawer, matching socks and getting rid of anything that...
This is a very different blog than what I usually write. This is going to give you some
feelings, not sure what type. In creating a life that is organized, there are things to think
about and this is what I am sharing.
EMPTY THE HOUSE
Imagine if you were challenged to empty all of the contents out of your house into your front yard.
SPENDING FREEZE
What if you took an entire year and only bought what you need (food, clothing and fuel)?
HOBBY HOG
A hobby can be wonderful for many reasons. Isn’t it incredible to see how much stuff comes with a hobby
“In order to unlock the full potential of a closet or room you must have the right key to unlock the door!" - Darlene Illig
A door can do many things, have you stopped to consider how it could help you become better organized? The one tip I share in almost every client home I enter is to use the door to improve efficiency and maximize space.
Let’s talk about why the door is such a good space for organizing:
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No one likes being sick. A lengthy illness or hospitalization stay can leave you with lots of doctors, tests, follow up appointments and bills. It can overwhelm quickly. Depending on the type of illness and lingering affects it can be impossible. I am here to tell you there is help out there.There are Social Workers and Case Managers that can help. A trusted person can also do this with the information I am going to share. I am not just a Professional Organizer, I have worked in healthcare for over thirty years and bring my experience to my clients and to this blog.
One of the first recommendations I have is to get a notebook, at least a 3 subject. If you feel you need more you could make it a 5 subject notebook! Keeping everything in one place makes it easy to take to appointments. This notebook will be a place for writing down appointment dates and times and what was discussed at the appointment. (This is so important because it’s really easy to forget what...
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